The #WhyABDL Q&A Series
The first Abysitter.com Q&A was completed
February 12, 2012.
The goal at the time was to give
members of the ABDL community a place
to share their ABDL stories
in a simple format.
Seven years later, nearly 100 members
of the community
have taken the time to introduce themselves
and share their stories
with my readers.
Will you be next?
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ALL THE ANSWERS
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RESPONDENT'S ANSWERS:
IN ONE PLACE!
“When did you first realize you were an ABDL?”
“What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child or a teen?”
"Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please share how they reacted."
"Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle?"
"For collegebabies/DLs, did this affect your college experiences? If so, how?"
"How has this fetish/lifestyle affected your social life? Dating? Married life? Parenting?"
"Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?"
"For the older generation, please tell us more about what it was like being ABDL before social networking?"
"For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the internet?"
"Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as baby furs, diaper discipline, wet/messy, sissybabies, etc.? Please tell us about it."
"What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?"
"If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel?"
"Don't let yourself be limited by my questions. If you have anything else at all that you would like to say, please feel free to say it here..."
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RESPONDENT'S ANSWERS:
"If you’re not from the states you may not know that at sixteen (at least in the State of Florida) you are permitted to drive alone if you’ve completed all of your tests by your birthday. Not too long after getting my license I was making frequent hour long trips between where I lived and my cello lessons in the next city over. Where I grew up in Central Florida it is super rural, with seemingly endless straight stretches of highway through farms that surround the towns. There was this rogue CVS pharmacy right in the middle of said commute and after my late night lessons and orchestra meetings I would always pass by imagining how it wouldn’t be too difficult to just go right in and buy diapers. I always paid very careful attention to how many cars there were in the parking lot as I drove by. More than one car and that meant there was probably someone else inside shopping. Over time I promised to myself that the night I drive by and there is only one car I’m just going to suck up my fear and go in. So one very late night driving back from a prom my plan finally came together. The single car in the parking lot at 2:00am indicated I would finally be able to finally fulfill my diaper wearing obsession. I pulled in to a parking spot, looked into the window from my car spotting a very non-judgmental older lady running the register. It was now or never. With cash in hand, I walked very directly into the store, feeling shaky and sweaty all over..." [READ THE REST]
"The next time I wore a diaper I was 14 and just coming to grips with also being homosexual. I talked to one of my older friends about them... and after explaining what little I knew at the time about why I wanted them, he brought me up to the dollar store. I bought some pack of cheap not so cool looking diaper... then I remember how nervous I was bringing them to the counter. The sweat and the shaking limbs and how it made me feel all over inside and out was overwhelming my tiny little neck hairs raised. I snuck them home and wore them to bed, although I still never wet them. I think this was when i got them confused with being a sexual item. By that time puberty had hit hard and everything gives you a boner when you are 14."
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"Stenson was an impulsive purchase, which turned out to be the best decision I’ve ever made. I genuinely don’t think i’ve ever, ever, been more in little space. When he came, my heart had butterflies from excitement. I don’t think I’ve ever experienced anything more wonderful as an abdl other than the excitement that I got from when Stenson first arrived. Since then, we’ve gone on a few adventures, and he sometimes comes with me to work in my backpack. Stenson makes me feel more like a little boy than anything else, and I love every second of it. Who doesn’t think a boy carrying their teddy everywhere isn’t cute? Exactly, nobody."
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"There is an aspect of regression here but it's hard to tell exactly what it is. People have told me that very few ABs slip into their regressed form more naturally than I do, and notably, the first time I did in front of others, I barely noticed it happening and it wasn't intended. Since then, it has happened around people that don't know about my little side as well, in moments where I feel very comfortable with the people I'm around. I get much more impulsive, say whatever comes to mind and either start jumping around or will randomly sit on the floor or on my knees on chairs. Those are the small symptoms. When I regress deeper I turn into a fragile little thing. I have cried when my diapers leaked before in the past, to name something. The exact mechanics of my regression are still being researched but these are some things I know about it ^^. "
"Diapers are my main kink, and I think there are many ways to ‘enrich’ this fetish. I like the idea of being forced to wear a diaper and being forced to use a diaper. The first thing requires domination, and the second thing could for example be achieved with bondage. I’m not into really heavy BDSM stuff, but I’m pretty open-minded. Chastity, bondage, spanking and sensory deprivation appeal to me,
especially in combination with diapers. I like to try out new things, but I do have my limits of course. I like to think in roles. Preferable I’ll let the other one decide on what/who I am. Call me your baby, I call you daddy. Call me your slave, I call you sir."
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especially in combination with diapers. I like to try out new things, but I do have my limits of course. I like to think in roles. Preferable I’ll let the other one decide on what/who I am. Call me your baby, I call you daddy. Call me your slave, I call you sir."
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"I don't live an intense, far-off-baseline lifestyle that causes me to be detached from normality, which is a very important thing. You can't have your entire life revolve around a sexual/non sexual fetish, it's just unhealthy. I've seen some who want to live in a fantasy world where they have a mommy or daddy take care of them, and they live a carefree life. One, in my opinion I find that extremely unhealthy, and two, at the end of the day, I absolutely love being an independent adult. I get immense satisfaction from shaping my life the way I want it. Because of this, I have had the opportunity to get myself a crib custom made, make my room a cute little nursery, and other nice things. Only my room is babyish, but my apartment looks like a nicely kept 20-something year old den. I keep my place clean, work hard, play later."
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A N D L E T ' S N O T F O R G E T . . .
April 1, 2012
Q&A With Jay Lew
February 7, 2019
Q&A with Kyle/Kai
December 8, 2018
Q&A with Liam
September 24, 2018
Q&A With Windman
September 30, 2012
Q&A With Jay Lew
February 7, 2019
Q&A with Kyle/Kai
December 8, 2018
Q&A with Liam
September 24, 2018
Q&A With Windman
September 30, 2012
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